Before You Lose Weight, Read This.

For years I said that, in the spirit of body positivity, I would never share my “before and after” photos.

If you’ve followed my healthy curves journey, you know that over the years I’ve been told I should be “ashamed” of myself for speaking about body positive weight loss and I’ve had more hurtful DM’s about the changes in my body than I’d care to discuss.

There hasn’t been room in the body positive community for a weight loss conversation. Perhaps if restriction and under eating was part of my story I’d feel differently– but, as a plus size woman, the simple truth is that my body positive journey has included weight loss.

91% of you said you would welcome a body positive weight loss conversation from me.

65% of women find “before and after” photos to be inspiring/motivating.

 

Many of you shared with me that you’re triggered by unrealistic before/after photos and that you felt that my weight loss transformation over the last seven years is realistic.

This makes sense to me, so I’ve changed my mind. Today I’m going to share my before and after photos with you.

In my experience, weight loss has been a secondary result of being consistent with my healthy curves routine. If you’re curious about getting healthy and losing weight along the way and seeing a realistic weight loss transformation will help to inspire/motivate you, I’m happy to share mine. I’d also like to share seven things I think you should know before you lose weight.

For reference, I am 5’10.

Let’s begin:

1.) Don’t wait on your weight to live the life you want

You deserve to live a happy, loving, beautiful life at any size. Embracing body positivity and falling in love with my body at a size 28 was the best thing I could have done on my healthy curves journey. Your mindset is crucial. If you learn to love your body now, it will be so much easier to love your body as it changes. Some of my best adventures happened when I was a size 28. I’m proud that I have swimsuit photos at almost 400 pounds. I didn’t hide from the world, waiting for a certain number on the scale and I hope you don’t either. As you’ll see in my photos, God has blessed me to live a wonderful life and I didn’t wait on my weight to enjoy it.

Related: How to Build Self Confidence

2.) Health is a Practice, not a Pant Size

Some of the best results of embracing a more healthy lifestyle can’t be measured on the scale or the size of your jeans. In my experience, weight loss has been a secondary result of being consistent with my healthy curves routine. I’ve used healthy meals and modified workouts to regulate my period, clear up my skin, increase my endurance, grow my hair and nails and reduce inflammation. Those changes happened rather quickly in comparison to my actual weight loss. When I had weight loss as my primary goal it never went well for me. When I decided I wanted to develop a healthy curves routine, of healthy recipes and fitness now that’s when I saw real lasting change.

3.) How to Know if You’re at a Healthy Weight

I’ve lost a ton of weight and not been healthy, so I never use my weight as the sole barometer for my health. Of course, I always consult my doctor but what works for me is paying attention to how my body is functioning. Is my menstrual cycle regular or irregular? Hows my skin? How are my joints? If I had to go up a flight of stairs, could I do it? What’s my gut health these days? What are the results of my most recent blood work? If you and your doctor feel like your body is functioning well across the board, great! If there are body functions that need to improve, map out a healthy curves routine to address your specific needs– research the foods that are supportive to your health goals. In my experience, I was able to regulate my period, clear up my skin and reduce inflammation using a proper meal plan full of supportive foods. I know how challenging it can be to create meal plans, so I’ve worked with a nutrition coach to create an affordable set of meal plans for healthy curves at every size. The 30 day Curve Method Meal Plans are now available for sale. Curve Method Meal plans are available in vegan, low carb, high protein and a simple 5-Ingredient meal plan options.

Each meal plan includes:

-breakfast, lunch, dinner, treats and smoothie options.

-weekly shopping list that lets you shop effortlessly for your healthy recipe ingredients

-detailed calorie & macronutrient profiles for every recipe

-MyFitnessPal barcodes

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4.) Can you lose weight without saggy skin?

I must admit, the idea of saggy skin made me fearful of losing “too much” weight. So, if you’re worried about saggy skin– I understand. If you’ve followed me for a while, you know that I used to really hate my arms because I felt they were too big. Although, a body positive mindset has made me more confident to show my arms now, I was nervous that with significant weight loss my arms would end up with extra loose skin and I’d have to learn to love them all over again. In my weight loss journey, I’m happy to share that my arms aren’t flabby/lose and I don’t have additional stretch marks. I didn’t rush my process. I added strength training to my healthy curves routine. Often as women we are afraid of getting “bulky” but as a plus size woman losing weight, muscle is my best friend. Learning modified body weight workouts really helped to keep my skin firm and taunt. I drink more water now than I ever have. Water helps improve skin elasticity, making it bounce back from sagging. Protect and pamper your skin– start to think about the skin on your body the same way you treat the skin on your face. You probably have a skincare routine for your face– you need one for your body too! Exfoliation, Hydration and protection are key. Those three things really helped me. You can see how my arms look seven years apart in the photos below.

5.) Do People Treat you Differently After you Lose Weight?

“Don’t walk through the world looking for evidence that you don’t belong– because you will always find it”- Brene Brown.

I’m going to level with you here– yes, people may respond to you differently at a smaller size. People may respond to you differently if they’re having a bad day. Different people will respond to you differently. Guess what– this can happen to anyone at any size.

Along your healthy curves journey, you may experience everything from jealousy to increased attraction. You may find yourself getting more attention and feeling less “invisible”. Something to consider is that you’ve changed. You may have a brighter glow. You may have a little more pep in your step. You may have a bit more confidence.

This is why I recommend you don’t wait on your weight to live the life you want. Build your confidence starting today and see how the world responds to you. There will always be people who are feeling you and people who are not. You will always have to navigate that and choose who gets to be part of your life accordingly.

The mindset work and having unshakeable confidence at any size will keep you balanced no matter how the world treats you. That’s the work!

6.) What is the Best Meal Plan for Healthy Curves?

The best meal plan is the one you will actually stick to. Always check with your doctor first, but you will likely need different things at different legs of your journey (I know I did!). Much of this depended on my lifestyle and how much extra time I had. When I needed urgent support and didn’t have time to cook I turned to nutrisystem and HMR for a few months to reset. When I needed support creating boundaries with my eating I’ve done weight watchers. I’ve also gone to overeaters anonymous meetings. But the ultimate goal for me was always to learn how to use food to heal my body. I wanted to be the girl who could whip up a really good meal that was supportive to her body. This came from meal plans created by my nutrition coach. I understand how 1:1 coaching Over the years I’ve done monthly meal plans. Meal plans take preparation and planning but they are soooo worth the effort. One of the benefits of following a meal plan created by a professional is that you can watch how your body responds when you bring in (or take a break from) certain foods.

I’m excited to partner with a nutrition coach to create an affordable set of meal plans to support you along your healthy curves journey. The 30 day Curve Method Meal Plans are now available for sale. Curve Method Meal plans are available in vegan, low carb, high protein and a simple 5-Ingredient meal plan options.

Each meal plan includes:

-breakfast, lunch, dinner, treats and smoothie options.

-weekly shopping list that lets you shop effortlessly for your healthy recipe ingredients

-detailed calorie & macronutrient profiles for every recipe

-MyFitnessPal barcodes

Click Here for your 30 day vegan meal plan

Click here for your 30 day low carb meal plan

Click here for your 30 day high protein meal plan

Click here for your simple 5- Ingredient Meal Plan

 

 

7.) I want to get healthy and stay motivated– where do I start?

When it comes to my weight now, I’m happy but not satisfied. Bad knees run in my family, so even though I am WAY better after my lateral meniscus tear surgery, I still have knee issues. I recently learned that losing one pound of weight takes 4 pounds of pressure off of your knees. So, I’d like to bring my weight down a bit more. I’m looking at small goals like ten pounds over the course of 2023 (that’s 40 pounds of pressure off my knees!), so I’m going back to my tried and true meal plans and fitness. It feels good not to come at weight loss from a place of dieting or wanting to be skinny. I just want to feel healthy, strong and have endurance. I want to be consistent. Lately, I don’t even consider ordering takeout– I have simple supportive recipes that I make for myself. I meal plan, meal prep, I research the foods that are (and are not) supportive to my body. I’m learning what it will require for me to hit my next phase of goals. It took me seven years to get this far in my journey so I don’t expect anything to happen over night. But I will be working on it consistently.

If you’d like to join me, your 30 day Curve Method Meal plans are waiting for you here.

Here are some of the feedback we’ve received:

Lucy G Said– “I haven’t really had success with any sort of eating plan before. However this is the first time that I feel excited and committed. I can’t believe how much energy I have after a green smoothie!! I’m feeling like this is going to be the year of my body, where I reconnect and rebuild!!”

 

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Quick progress report: So I am down 10.8 pounds since the beginning of this thing. My skin is looking grrrreat. My energy levels have been way up. And the swelling in my ankle (that I always thought was normal after a day at work) is no more! If that’s not motivation enough, I don’t know what is!” -Kaitlin S.

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When I first started I barely knew how to cook toast. I was resistant and thought I would never 1) get it 2)find time 3) **most of all** enjoy it. I now enjoy my trader joe’s trips. I enjoy prepping. I LOVE being able to make a meal that is healthy and supportive for my family. The best part of it all, my family loves it too. They went from not being engaged to texting on the way home from work “whats for dinner”. THAT is a transformation worth talking about.” -Meaghan O.

 

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11 thoughts on “Before You Lose Weight, Read This.”

  1. Thank you.
    I just read your article and I think showing before/after pics are motivating for sure. I read and reread your 7 things to know. I’m older now and my partner works out 2-3 hours a day. He’s fit and active. I struggle with why he’s with me. I’m overweight and am struggling with my body image. I eat pretty good(you’ve heard that right?), but I hate to exercise. I’m going to reread your blog again and find it within me to internalize your words. So, thank you.

  2. Thank you so much CeCe. I am renewing my journey as well. I appreciate you and cannot wait to see what good things 2023 holds for you.

  3. I appreciate seeing your weight loss! I think body positivity requires being positive—not only about being a larger size but listening to your body and knowing what it needs. So long as you’re doing that and not living in a negative space, that’s honoring your body. I know I need to lose weight—not to look good (already do that at ALL weights! 🙂 ) not to fit a societal standard (don’t care!), but for specific health challenges that I have encountered since abandoning focus on supportive eating and gaining >50 lbs. there’s no denying that and if I don’t listen to that, I’m not ultimately honoring my body.

  4. Yessss! Enjoyed this! I love the way you described this journey as “healthy curves”. I agree with you that when we focus on loving our bodies through eating better, working out, hydration, rest, and self-care that we show up differently in the world!

  5. This is soooo well done! I absolutely love the concept of not waiting on your weight. I recently had weight loss surgery but it so important to me that people knew I was FAR from a miserable overweight person. I lived lots of life in my 280lb body. However at 42, my blood pressure was spiking and I realized I needed to make a change for my overall health. I am now learning this new smaller 225lb body. Thank you for writing this and for always being honest with your followers. All the best on your 2023 journey to lose those 10lbs aka 40lbs of knee pressure.
    Raquel~

  6. This is soooo well done! I absolutely love the concept of not waiting on your weight. I recently had weight loss surgery but it so important to me that people knew I was FAR from a miserable overweight person. I lived lots of life in my 280lb body. However at 42, my blood pressure was spiking and I realized I needed to make a change for my overall health. I am now learning this new smaller 225lb body. Thank you for writing this and for always being honest with your followers. All the best on your 2023 journey to lose those 10lbs aka 40lbs of knee pressure.

    Raquel~

  7. Thanks so much for sharing. I’m currently on my weight loss journey and I’m trying to figure out things that are going to be beneficial to me and my body. I have the Large thighs and large arms that are my primary focus that I’m trying to reduce. But your suggestions are golden. Keep them coming.

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