I’m in a loving relationship with my man for about 4 years now. But now and then, we get a little bored so we’ve decided to do a controlled “experiment.” He and I can both sleep with one person off Tinder (the dating app!) with the caveat that we need to sign off on each other’s person.
Tinder is interesting actually. Have you ever tried the app? What do you think? Is this a recipe for disaster? I already feel a little guilty when I attempt to contact men off Tinder.
Here are some things to ask yourself:
1.) Should I look for excitement inside of my relationship or outside of it?
2.) What if I don’t like this “experiment” and my boyfriend loves it?
3.) Why am I trying to save my relationship by doing things that make me feel guilty?
4.) Am I happy? Am I fulfilled? Is this the relationship for me?
5.) Do I want to be with someone who doesn’t mind me sleeping with someone else?
I’ve elaborated a bit more in this video response, I hope its helpful to you!
Side Note– for single girls looking for new dating apps to try: Yes, I have heard good things about Tinder and the other swipe-quickly app, TryHotorNot which is a new take on the old time-killing site that people were obsessed with a few years back. Robert would kill me if I signed up, so if you’re on either of these new sites let me know how it goes for you 😉
…thoughts? What advice do you have for our girl?