Dating

Can a Big Girl Date a Hot Guy?

November 30 2011 | CeCe Olisa

“CeCe’s dating a really great guy,” my friend Rebecca gushed to her coworkers.

It was “Thirsty Thursday” and I’d met Rebecca and her “PR girl” coworkers for a few martini’s and tapas in midtown. Put five girls in their 20’s together with a few drinks and inevitably the conversation will turn to… boys. My friends coworkers had all been complaining about the idiots they were dating and making ominous statements like “there are no good straight men in New York City!”

Rebecca’s statement was meant to prove that there were still great guys left in the city. Her coworkers followed up with a line of questioning on exactly how/where/when we met, how long we’d been dating etc.

I answered all of their questions and tried to change the subject to other things, but one girl in particular kept pressing me about Robert. Something about the way she was asking questions made me feel like she was trying to challenge me in some way. It was almost as if she was shocked that I (a Plus Size Princess) was dating someone and she (a no-carb, fat-free, skinny-minnie PR girl) was not.

I love talking about Robert and how he makes me happy, but this felt different. Rebecca continued to gush about Robert and me “Oh my God, you should have seen them at her best friend’s wedding this summer– they were the cutest couple on the dance floor…”

I smiled and tried again to change the subject, “I dated a lot of guys before I met him though– have you girls ever triedย  online dating?” We spoke about dating websites for a while and I thought I was off the hook, but Rebecca’s coworker wasn’t finished.

“Do you have any photos of your boyfriend?” she asked.

“Um, sure…” I said pulling out my phone. As I scrolled through my phone and found my favorite photo of Robert and me. In it, I am smiling at the camera and Robert is looking at me with a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye. Turning my phone screen to her, I had a feeling that the low-fat skinny-minnie was going to “sh*t bricks” as Rebecca likes to say and that’s exactly what she did.

“Oh My God, he’s HOT!” she exclaimed taking the phone from my hands and staring at it for a few seconds before showing the other girls who gave genuine “awww’s”. She handed the phone back to me. “Wow, good for you…” before taking a long sip of her drink.

“Thanks,” I replied. I wanted to yell “WINNING!”, but I figured that would be too much.

Here’s the thing, according to society’s standards big girls aren’t supposed to have hot boyfriends. But somehow I ended up with a really attractive guy. In the beginning I would worry about people thinking “what is he doing with her” when they saw us. But to my surprise guys (and homeless men) stop Robert all the time to tell him that he’s a lucky guy.

Sadly, women aren’t always so kind. I’ve had girls try to flirt with Robert in front of my face and it used to really do a number on my self-esteem.

All of that changed a few months ago when Robert and I went to karaoke with some friends. Robert scrolled through the song catalog and foundย  Don’t You Wish Your Girlfriend was Hot like Me by The Pussycat Dolls. “I want you to sing this for me,” he said with his boyish grin. When my turn came to sing,ย  he cheered me on while I danced and strutted around the bar… the whole bar went nuts cheering me on and Robert loved it! In that moment I realized yes, I’m dating a hot guy… and he thinks I’m hot too. Outside of that, nothing really matters.

Have any of you ever dated a hot guy? Did it make you insecure?

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185 responses on “Can a Big Girl Date a Hot Guy?

  1. Dena

    I have never dated a hot guy, but I have always felt like even in all my plus sized glory that I could. The thing that gets me is that somehow it’s a crazy idea for people that a big girl could get a hot guy, but the dirtiest of guys seem to think they are worthy of a supermodel. I do a lot of looking on online dating sites, and I get messages from the nastiest guys because some how the fact that I am plus sized means I should take anything that wants me. But when I, a beautiful PLUS SIZE woman, work up the nerve to even message a semi attractive man, I get blown off or harassed by them. People are crazy! You go with your sexy man girl!

    1. Yoliebee

      Same here, babe! When I’m online dating, I get the worst guys, and I hate to be mean, but 20 years older or really short, or Indian or something is just not my thing. Just because I’m plus sized does not mean I’m desperate. I’m beautiful, smart, successful and I’m a catch. I’d like a man who treats me as such.

  2. Dena.Upton@yahoo.com

    I have never dated a hot guy, but I have always felt like even in all my plus sized glory that I could. The thing that gets me is that somehow it’s a crazy idea for people that a big girl could get a hot guy, but the dirtiest of guys seem to think they are worthy of a supermodel. I do a lot of looking on online dating sites, and I get messages from the nastiest guys because some how the fact that I am plus sized means I should take anything that wants me. But when I, a beautiful PLUS SIZE woman, work up the nerve to even message a semi attractive man, I get blown off or harassed by them. People are crazy! You go with your sexy man girl!

    1. alaundale@yahoo.com

      Same here, babe! When I’m online dating, I get the worst guys, and I hate to be mean, but 20 years older or really short, or Indian or something is just not my thing. Just because I’m plus sized does not mean I’m desperate. I’m beautiful, smart, successful and I’m a catch. I’d like a man who treats me as such.

  3. KandiCoated

    Most of the guys I have dated have been HOT and I’m talking about from high school on to now(I’m 28), it bothered me most in high school, because I was insecure and thought that I was just lucky to have them, now I feel, hell they are lucky to have me! LOL. Some women can be catty and mean but I’ve learned that those types don’t just do that to us big chicks, but to anybody with a fine man. The side eye’s and snickers can be a little off putting because it’s like damn, just because I’m overweight does NOT mean that I’m unattractive or not worthy of a sexy guy, but the moment is fleeting because while they hate, I know that my man loves every inch and pound of me and those naysayers can choke on a twinkie.

  4. kandicoatedthickness@gmail.com

    Most of the guys I have dated have been HOT and I’m talking about from high school on to now(I’m 28), it bothered me most in high school, because I was insecure and thought that I was just lucky to have them, now I feel, hell they are lucky to have me! LOL. Some women can be catty and mean but I’ve learned that those types don’t just do that to us big chicks, but to anybody with a fine man. The side eye’s and snickers can be a little off putting because it’s like damn, just because I’m overweight does NOT mean that I’m unattractive or not worthy of a sexy guy, but the moment is fleeting because while they hate, I know that my man loves every inch and pound of me and those naysayers can choke on a twinkie.

  5. Zara

    First, I have to tell you that I LOVE your blog! Your writing is always honest, funny, and totally relatable (is that a word, lol)! You and I are so much alike its scary! I am a PSP and I am hawt fiyah! My bf is cute and wonderful. I ran through so many duds it isn’t even funny, before I met him. His love and acceptance of me has helped me realize what I always have known in my heart that I am worthy of a wonderful and good-looking man. And I know about all of those skinny girl haters out there. Just wave hello and keep it moving. Take care and I look forward to many more posts!

  6. zarawillis@yahoo.com

    First, I have to tell you that I LOVE your blog! Your writing is always honest, funny, and totally relatable (is that a word, lol)! You and I are so much alike its scary! I am a PSP and I am hawt fiyah! My bf is cute and wonderful. I ran through so many duds it isn’t even funny, before I met him. His love and acceptance of me has helped me realize what I always have known in my heart that I am worthy of a wonderful and good-looking man. And I know about all of those skinny girl haters out there. Just wave hello and keep it moving. Take care and I look forward to many more posts!

  7. B.Good

    All I date are hot guys…lol. But yes, I’ve dated a hot guy (or two) in my time, and yes, I’ve wondered “what does he see in me” or wondered if he has some kind of fetish. Thinking back, I’m sure I missed out on a guy or two because I was all in my head about why he wanted to approach me.

    But as I wised up a bit and gained more confidence in myself, I too realized that the hot guys I’ve dated were genuinely into me for me, and thought I was a hottie too. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.

    I’m glad you and your hottie found each other. Continue to flaunt each other and be hot together!

  8. abgood@gmail.com

    All I date are hot guys…lol. But yes, I’ve dated a hot guy (or two) in my time, and yes, I’ve wondered “what does he see in me” or wondered if he has some kind of fetish. Thinking back, I’m sure I missed out on a guy or two because I was all in my head about why he wanted to approach me.
    But as I wised up a bit and gained more confidence in myself, I too realized that the hot guys I’ve dated were genuinely into me for me, and thought I was a hottie too. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.

    I’m glad you and your hottie found each other. Continue to flaunt each other and be hot together!

  9. C

    I seriously teared up reading the end of this post where you sing for Robert, that is so cute! Totally a triumphant movie-moment out of the blockbuster hit CeCe: The Awesomest Ever. ๐Ÿ™‚

    I have also run into those girls who assume you are unloveable because there is more of you to love . . . I kind of feel bad for them because they actually could have been eating carbs all this time and still get the handsome fellas. Way to rock that skinny-minis world. Maybe she’ll eat a cookie once in a while and start working on her personality (not that skinny chicks automatically have crap personality . . . but from your post it sounds like that might be more her problem).

  10. cmdufty@yahoo.com

    I seriously teared up reading the end of this post where you sing for Robert, that is so cute! Totally a triumphant movie-moment out of the blockbuster hit CeCe: The Awesomest Ever. ๐Ÿ™‚
    I have also run into those girls who assume you are unloveable because there is more of you to love . . . I kind of feel bad for them because they actually could have been eating carbs all this time and still get the handsome fellas. Way to rock that skinny-minis world. Maybe she’ll eat a cookie once in a while and start working on her personality (not that skinny chicks automatically have crap personality . . . but from your post it sounds like that might be more her problem).

  11. blondennyc

    being a former plus size girl–i can tell you ALL women REGARDLESS of their size have the question “what’s he doing with me” running though our minds. it is how we are wired, we seem to somehow have this feeling that he’s looking for something better than us and he’s simply biding his time with us till the better thing comes along.
    i agree with dena “dirtiest of guys seem to think they are worthy of a supermodel”.. but honestly i feel it’s a WOMAN thing NOT a size thing. i am possibly more insecure today at a size 6 than i was at a size 30 ..why some may ask? it’s simple (at least to me) i have a lot more competition today than before. yes, i maybe “normal” (for whatever credit that is due)but i’m also 5’4 and in the city of manhattan littered with super models i might as well be a size 30 as many think it to be i’m still plus size…but i digress… all women can date a hot guy the real question should be does he honestly love us for who we are and not what we look like? that to me is the real question

  12. teresannyc1@aol.com

    being a former plus size girl–i can tell you ALL women REGARDLESS of their size have the question “what’s he doing with me” running though our minds. it is how we are wired, we seem to somehow have this feeling that he’s looking for something better than us and he’s simply biding his time with us till the better thing comes along.i agree with dena “dirtiest of guys seem to think they are worthy of a supermodel”.. but honestly i feel it’s a WOMAN thing NOT a size thing. i am possibly more insecure today at a size 6 than i was at a size 30 ..why some may ask? it’s simple (at least to me) i have a lot more competition today than before. yes, i maybe “normal” (for whatever credit that is due)but i’m also 5’4 and in the city of manhattan littered with super models i might as well be a size 30 as many think it to be i’m still plus size…but i digress… all women can date a hot guy the real question should be does he honestly love us for who we are and not what we look like? that to me is the real question

  13. Colleen

    I am a plus size princess and my boyfriend is wicked hot. I have never questioned his love for me because of my size. I do get stares from skinny girls all the time and have had some of them go right up to him and try to flirt with him in front of me as if I am not standing right there. I have no problem telling them where to go, and neither does he. I outweigh him by close to 140 lbs, so I’m pretty sure this is why we get stared at all the time.
    Keep enjoying your hot guy, cause those other girls are just being catty and jealous that they probably don’t have the personalities to keep a hot guy interested in them very long.

  14. colleenbeauvais@yahoo.com

    I am a plus size princess and my boyfriend is wicked hot. I have never questioned his love for me because of my size. I do get stares from skinny girls all the time and have had some of them go right up to him and try to flirt with him in front of me as if I am not standing right there. I have no problem telling them where to go, and neither does he. I outweigh him by close to 140 lbs, so I’m pretty sure this is why we get stared at all the time.Keep enjoying your hot guy, cause those other girls are just being catty and jealous that they probably don’t have the personalities to keep a hot guy interested in them very long.

  15. Sage

    I havenโ€™t dated at all! im 23 and im too scared to go out on a date with a guy that i think is cute. i dont believe it, to the point where i stop myself from “getting hurt” by not trying in the first place. Guys that ask me out are usually bummy looking. im mean seriously- one dude looked like he just rolled out of bed. he was missing teeth and i could smell the alcohol from his breathe. he looked me up and down and then asked for my number. not even a hi, or whats your name.. but ” you, can i get your numba”. i looked at him in disbelief.

    I want to be with a guy im attracted to. Yes, i like hot guys, and average guys too. i dont think i should end up with someone with balls just because im single and i need to be with someone. why does our society act this way. i would much rather be single. than with someone i dont like and unhappy.

    1. Magen

      I’m exactly the same. I’m 19 and a plus size girl. I’ve also never dated. I’m scared of the rejection on my end. I’ve also had someone interested in me but he wasn’t attractive at all. I agree with you. I would rather wait and be single than to be with someone that I’m not attracted to or doesn’t make me happy. I don’t think I should settle just because I’m not what society thinks I should be.

      1. kaykay

        But what if that unattractive guy would be great to you? See you are doing to him what you don’t want done to you? So how are you different from society?

        1. lovelyriks

          I don’t think anyone should settle for a person they aren’t attracted to… What kind of relationship is that? But I think the problem is when there are men who are attracted to a plus sized girl but don’t want to act on it for fear of what everybody else thinks

        2. Danisa

          I think we all want to be with someone that WE find attractive. They don’t necessarily have to be what everybody labels as “hot”. It would be unfair for a guy I don’t find attractive if I dated him only beacuse he’s the only one who got interested in me. It happened to me some time ago. It’s not that he was “unattractive”, I just didn’t like him. I’m not judging him, I’m not labeling him as “ugly”, I’m not saying he is not enough, I’m not denying him happiness for his appearance.

  16. missy11691us2001@yahoo.com

    I havenโ€™t dated at all! im 23 and im too scared to go out on a date with a guy that i think is cute. i dont believe it, to the point where i stop myself from “getting hurt” by not trying in the first place. Guys that ask me out are usually bummy looking. im mean seriously- one dude looked like he just rolled out of bed. he was missing teeth and i could smell the alcohol from his breathe. he looked me up and down and then asked for my number. not even a hi, or whats your name.. but ” you, can i get your numba”. i looked at him in disbelief.
    I want to be with a guy im attracted to. Yes, i like hot guys, and average guys too. i dont think i should end up with someone with balls just because im single and i need to be with someone. why does our society act this way. i would much rather be single. than with someone i dont like and unhappy.

    1. magenreginalecroy@gmail.com

      I’m exactly the same. I’m 19 and a plus size girl. I’ve also never dated. I’m scared of the rejection on my end. I’ve also had someone interested in me but he wasn’t attractive at all. I agree with you. I would rather wait and be single than to be with someone that I’m not attracted to or doesn’t make me happy. I don’t think I should settle just because I’m not what society thinks I should be.

      1. kofibenton@yahoo.com

        But what if that unattractive guy would be great to you? See you are doing to him what you don’t want done to you? So how are you different from society?

        1. kellee_travis@yahoo.com

          I don’t think anyone should settle for a person they aren’t attracted to… What kind of relationship is that? But I think the problem is when there are men who are attracted to a plus sized girl but don’t want to act on it for fear of what everybody else thinks

        2. dm_saucedo@hotmail.com

          I think we all want to be with someone that WE find attractive. They don’t necessarily have to be what everybody labels as “hot”. It would be unfair for a guy I don’t find attractive if I dated him only beacuse he’s the only one who got interested in me. It happened to me some time ago. It’s not that he was “unattractive”, I just didn’t like him. I’m not judging him, I’m not labeling him as “ugly”, I’m not saying he is not enough, I’m not denying him happiness for his appearance.

  17. lusty sagittarian

    CeCe!!! Yesssssss! I am so happy to read this post! You have it goin’ on! I had the opposite experience with women friends oddly enough. I have always been with men that other women described as hot, but I would always tell myself that couldn’t be possible (whether I was heavy or not at the time). But looking back over the last 20 years, including a 7-yr marriage, and photos upon photos, I can see that yes, they were incredibly handsome men (and my hopeful forever man now as well). You seem to see the truth in your life. That’s a gift. Live in the light of the truth, don’t fool yourself or shame yourself into distorting that light. Always cheering you on.

  18. girltrueheart@yahoo.com

    CeCe!!! Yesssssss! I am so happy to read this post! You have it goin’ on! I had the opposite experience with women friends oddly enough. I have always been with men that other women described as hot, but I would always tell myself that couldn’t be possible (whether I was heavy or not at the time). But looking back over the last 20 years, including a 7-yr marriage, and photos upon photos, I can see that yes, they were incredibly handsome men (and my hopeful forever man now as well). You seem to see the truth in your life. That’s a gift. Live in the light of the truth, don’t fool yourself or shame yourself into distorting that light. Always cheering you on.

  19. LoveLiveNiecey

    I am so happy for you CECE!!! & Just like others I relate to your blog all the time. I have dated a few guys & I think their hot & when I showed my friends their pictures they thought they where hot too. As I grow older (Only 20) I realize my confidence grow, Because when I was in a relationship with these guys I didn’t believe they where hot. Like it just confuse me on why a hot guy would want me? My insecurities run deep. But like I said as I mature my confidence mature also. Now Im beginning to ask myself why wouldn’t an hot guy want me, I’m about to start traveling the world, in a year i be finish with college & i have to much to offer. But thanks for your post to encourage me (& others) a little bit more. All us PSP Need to stick together.

  20. rwileyholmes@gmail.com

    I am so happy for you CECE!!! & Just like others I relate to your blog all the time. I have dated a few guys & I think their hot & when I showed my friends their pictures they thought they where hot too. As I grow older (Only 20) I realize my confidence grow, Because when I was in a relationship with these guys I didn’t believe they where hot. Like it just confuse me on why a hot guy would want me? My insecurities run deep. But like I said as I mature my confidence mature also. Now Im beginning to ask myself why wouldn’t an hot guy want me, I’m about to start traveling the world, in a year i be finish with college & i have to much to offer. But thanks for your post to encourage me (& others) a little bit more. All us PSP Need to stick together.

  21. Lee

    Hi Ce Ce
    Firstly, love your blog, I’m an older PSP andI relate so much to what you write as well. if I look back all the guys I dated before i got married were hot and they persued me, I’ve never lacked for male attention, many of my friends are men, and this used to surprise me,because all the time I was getting the message from society that I should be unlovable. A lot of rubbish, but I have battled this at every size. my husband , who is gorgeous, thinks I’m hot, he’s always telling me I look like Faye Dunaway. Funnily enough I could not see it because I had been conditioned by how society saw me, but I think he may have something -when I am more objective there is a definite resemblance.
    On the negative side, woman can be so judgmental, I was walking down the street the other day when this woman gave me the full up and down look with a disapproving look on her face. I was looking really great, but she made me shrink, just awful. I never get this from men

  22. lesley@iprimus.com.au

    Hi Ce CeFirstly, love your blog, I’m an older PSP andI relate so much to what you write as well. if I look back all the guys I dated before i got married were hot and they persued me, I’ve never lacked for male attention, many of my friends are men, and this used to surprise me,because all the time I was getting the message from society that I should be unlovable. A lot of rubbish, but I have battled this at every size. my husband , who is gorgeous, thinks I’m hot, he’s always telling me I look like Faye Dunaway. Funnily enough I could not see it because I had been conditioned by how society saw me, but I think he may have something -when I am more objective there is a definite resemblance.
    On the negative side, woman can be so judgmental, I was walking down the street the other day when this woman gave me the full up and down look with a disapproving look on her face. I was looking really great, but she made me shrink, just awful. I never get this from men

  23. Glam_Rach

    Loving this post and so so so true!!!

    I’ve been a lucky girl and dated a lot of hot men! In fact it’s a but of a running joke amongst my friends that I’ve dated the hotest guys and they comment they don’t need to see a photo of a new guy cos they know he will be hot.

    I’m not sure if any of you are familiar with the Maya Angelou poem ‘Phenominal Women’ … I like to think some of us PSP have that effect. It’s all in the attitude. I’ve got a good make friend who is very hot who I used to date but he is a bit of a mam about town so dating wise it didn’t go anywhere but we still hang out. He one said quote matter of fact…. Rachael you know why guys are drawn to you- your smile, it lights up a room. Your always smiling and your always giving off such a positive vibe. Your just you. …. I tho I this sunk in and I have accepted a lot more since then.

    But yeah love it when the skinny minnies are shocked! Is that bad of me lol ๐Ÿ™‚

    Thanks for sharing

  24. Rach_boswell@yahoo.co.uk

    Loving this post and so so so true!!!
    I’ve been a lucky girl and dated a lot of hot men! In fact it’s a but of a running joke amongst my friends that I’ve dated the hotest guys and they comment they don’t need to see a photo of a new guy cos they know he will be hot.

    I’m not sure if any of you are familiar with the Maya Angelou poem ‘Phenominal Women’ … I like to think some of us PSP have that effect. It’s all in the attitude. I’ve got a good make friend who is very hot who I used to date but he is a bit of a mam about town so dating wise it didn’t go anywhere but we still hang out. He one said quote matter of fact…. Rachael you know why guys are drawn to you- your smile, it lights up a room. Your always smiling and your always giving off such a positive vibe. Your just you. …. I tho I this sunk in and I have accepted a lot more since then.

    But yeah love it when the skinny minnies are shocked! Is that bad of me lol ๐Ÿ™‚

    Thanks for sharing

  25. Lee

    Love that poem Racheal! Posting it here for all the other PSPs to walk tall!Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
    I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
    But when I start to tell them,
    They think I’m telling lies.
    I say,
    It’s in the reach of my arms
    The span of my hips,
    The stride of my step,
    The curl of my lips.
    I’m a woman
    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal woman,
    That’s me.

    I walk into a room
    Just as cool as you please,
    And to a man,
    The fellows stand or
    Fall down on their knees.
    Then they swarm around me,
    A hive of honey bees.
    I say,
    It’s the fire in my eyes,
    And the flash of my teeth,
    The swing in my waist,
    And the joy in my feet.
    I’m a woman
    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal woman,
    That’s me.

    Men themselves have wondered
    What they see in me.
    They try so much
    But they can’t touch
    My inner mystery.
    When I try to show them
    They say they still can’t see.
    I say,
    It’s in the arch of my back,
    The sun of my smile,
    The ride of my breasts,
    The grace of my style.
    I’m a woman

    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal woman,
    That’s me.

    Now you understand
    Just why my head’s not bowed.
    I don’t shout or jump about
    Or have to talk real loud.
    When you see me passing
    It ought to make you proud.
    I say,
    It’s in the click of my heels,
    The bend of my hair,
    the palm of my hand,
    The need of my care,
    ‘Cause I’m a woman
    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal woman,
    That’s me.

    Maya Angelou

  26. B

    What’s wrong with an average looking nice guy?

    I have dated average looking to extremely good looking men and at the end of the day, all that really matters is how they treat me, not how “hot” they are. If a guy is a real sweetheart and treats me well, I will, with much pride and no hesitation, show a photo of him to whoever asks.

    This world is so Kardashianized.

  27. b@whatever.com

    What’s wrong with an average looking nice guy?
    I have dated average looking to extremely good looking men and at the end of the day, all that really matters is how they treat me, not how “hot” they are. If a guy is a real sweetheart and treats me well, I will, with much pride and no hesitation, show a photo of him to whoever asks.

    This world is so Kardashianized.

  28. Elle

    Ha. I see where B is coming from. My fella is abercrombie hot according to the masses, but I always saw him for who he was not what he looked like. Which is why he pursued ME. Before me and him started spending more time together I had a skinny minnie friend go after him ruthlessly even when she knew we had mutual interests in each other. The fact that he rejected her is what made me start seeing him for the wonderful guy he was. Not just a hot guy. And yes a few weekends ago we were walking downtown holding hands and we got the stares when we walked into a posh bar. I didn’t feel insecure. I felt angry that people felt it was okay to stare and turn their noses up. Screw those people.

  29. Stellarcanicul@yahoo.com

    Ha. I see where B is coming from. My fella is abercrombie hot according to the masses, but I always saw him for who he was not what he looked like. Which is why he pursued ME. Before me and him started spending more time together I had a skinny minnie friend go after him ruthlessly even when she knew we had mutual interests in each other. The fact that he rejected her is what made me start seeing him for the wonderful guy he was. Not just a hot guy. And yes a few weekends ago we were walking downtown holding hands and we got the stares when we walked into a posh bar. I didn’t feel insecure. I felt angry that people felt it was okay to stare and turn their noses up. Screw those people.

  30. Janny

    Cece, my boyfriend is HOT! In the 6 years we’ve been together i’ve had those moments where a girl finds out he is my boyfriend and looks at me like ive grown two heads more times then i can count. He loves me just the way i am as a plus size princess and i adore him, we are getting married in 3 mnths and still women try to flirt with him when he is with me! I have grown a thicker skin about it, i am worthy and deserving of love, we all are. and even though its so stupid that people think we cant have great looking boyfriends just because we are chubby or overweight its comforting to know i’m not the only one going through this.

  31. jstewart219@gmail.com

    Cece, my boyfriend is HOT! In the 6 years we’ve been together i’ve had those moments where a girl finds out he is my boyfriend and looks at me like ive grown two heads more times then i can count. He loves me just the way i am as a plus size princess and i adore him, we are getting married in 3 mnths and still women try to flirt with him when he is with me! I have grown a thicker skin about it, i am worthy and deserving of love, we all are. and even though its so stupid that people think we cant have great looking boyfriends just because we are chubby or overweight its comforting to know i’m not the only one going through this.

  32. yummy.P

    hi Cece!!
    I’m Audrey
    i’m really happy to put a comment on your blog..
    i’ve spend a lot of time reading you, and definitively i like how u’re writing! so crazy!it seems as we’re living the story at the same time as you and for real…ADDICTED!
    first i’m not REALLY a PSP i’m on 12 but as i’m living in India now it’s considered as …OBESE
    i’m coming from Cameroon in central africa; and there it wasn’t already easy to assume those “curves”!
    Anyway!
    talking about dating a “hot guy”…
    i can say yes i had.
    i was around 18, he was 4 years older, a saxophonist soooo handsome!
    i was really crazy ’bout him!lool
    but when we were out, i was feeling uncomfortable, with all the pretty girls he was working with,
    the fans and collegues. I wasn’t specially beautiful or sexy in the way i was dressing…
    but it seemed not to disturb him at all…i don’t know…he wasn’t that much talkative…
    ow i forgot! he wasn’t single! pretty girlfriend but things were going bad between them
    so…definitively not good for me.
    finally i just stop dating him..after a long!
    and now..he is still in my mind ๐Ÿ™‚

  33. yummy.P

    hi Cece!!
    I’m Audrey
    i’m really happy to put a comment on your blog..
    i’ve spend a lot of time reading you, and definitively i like how u’re writing! so crazy!it seems as we’re living the story at the same time as you and for real…ADDICTED!
    first i’m not REALLY a PSP i’m on 12 but as i’m living in India now it’s considered as …OBESE
    i’m coming from Cameroon in central africa; and there it wasn’t already easy to assume those “curves”!
    Anyway!
    talking about dating a “hot guy”…
    i can say yes i had.
    i was around 18, he was 4 years older, a saxophonist soooo handsome!
    i was really crazy ’bout him!lool
    but when we were out, i was feeling uncomfortable, with all the pretty girls he was working with,
    the fans and collegues. I wasn’t specially beautiful or sexy in the way i was dressing…
    but it seemed not to disturb him at all…i don’t know…he wasn’t that much talkative…
    ow i forgot! he wasn’t single! pretty girlfriend but things were going bad between them
    so…definitively not good for me.
    finally i just stop dating him..after a long!
    and now..he is still in my mind ๐Ÿ™‚

  34. aude_bcf@yahoo.fr

    hi Cece!!I’m Audrey
    i’m really happy to put a comment on your blog..
    i’ve spend a lot of time reading you, and definitively i like how u’re writing! so crazy!it seems as we’re living the story at the same time as you and for real…ADDICTED!
    first i’m not REALLY a PSP i’m on 12 but as i’m living in India now it’s considered as …OBESE
    i’m coming from Cameroon in central africa; and there it wasn’t already easy to assume those “curves”!
    Anyway!
    talking about dating a “hot guy”…
    i can say yes i had.
    i was around 18, he was 4 years older, a saxophonist soooo handsome!
    i was really crazy ’bout him!lool
    but when we were out, i was feeling uncomfortable, with all the pretty girls he was working with,
    the fans and collegues. I wasn’t specially beautiful or sexy in the way i was dressing…
    but it seemed not to disturb him at all…i don’t know…he wasn’t that much talkative…
    ow i forgot! he wasn’t single! pretty girlfriend but things were going bad between them
    so…definitively not good for me.
    finally i just stop dating him..after a long!
    and now..he is still in my mind ๐Ÿ™‚

  35. aude_bcf@yahoo.fr

    hi Cece!!I’m Audrey
    i’m really happy to put a comment on your blog..
    i’ve spend a lot of time reading you, and definitively i like how u’re writing! so crazy!it seems as we’re living the story at the same time as you and for real…ADDICTED!
    first i’m not REALLY a PSP i’m on 12 but as i’m living in India now it’s considered as …OBESE
    i’m coming from Cameroon in central africa; and there it wasn’t already easy to assume those “curves”!
    Anyway!
    talking about dating a “hot guy”…
    i can say yes i had.
    i was around 18, he was 4 years older, a saxophonist soooo handsome!
    i was really crazy ’bout him!lool
    but when we were out, i was feeling uncomfortable, with all the pretty girls he was working with,
    the fans and collegues. I wasn’t specially beautiful or sexy in the way i was dressing…
    but it seemed not to disturb him at all…i don’t know…he wasn’t that much talkative…
    ow i forgot! he wasn’t single! pretty girlfriend but things were going bad between them
    so…definitively not good for me.
    finally i just stop dating him..after a long!
    and now..he is still in my mind ๐Ÿ™‚

  36. Rosigirl

    You shouldn’t take it out on thin girls. There’s no “winning” because of anyone’s size. Everybody in the world who is a good person deserves the best, regardless of thier size. And the best isn’t always physical. The best is how your man makes you feel. Life is not a competition – no matter who you are, there is always someone “more” than you – thinner, richer, fit, healthy, funny – the list goes on and on.

  37. Rosigirl

    You shouldn’t take it out on thin girls. There’s no “winning” because of anyone’s size. Everybody in the world who is a good person deserves the best, regardless of thier size. And the best isn’t always physical. The best is how your man makes you feel. Life is not a competition – no matter who you are, there is always someone “more” than you – thinner, richer, fit, healthy, funny – the list goes on and on.

  38. rosigirl@earthlink.net

    You shouldn’t take it out on thin girls. There’s no “winning” because of anyone’s size. Everybody in the world who is a good person deserves the best, regardless of thier size. And the best isn’t always physical. The best is how your man makes you feel. Life is not a competition – no matter who you are, there is always someone “more” than you – thinner, richer, fit, healthy, funny – the list goes on and on.

  39. rosigirl@earthlink.net

    You shouldn’t take it out on thin girls. There’s no “winning” because of anyone’s size. Everybody in the world who is a good person deserves the best, regardless of thier size. And the best isn’t always physical. The best is how your man makes you feel. Life is not a competition – no matter who you are, there is always someone “more” than you – thinner, richer, fit, healthy, funny – the list goes on and on.

  40. LIFEASSLIZ

    I TOTE5 AGREE WITH YOU. I WEIGH 232 POUNDS AND I AM 10 YEAR OLD AND I JUST LUVV URRRE BLOGSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I THANK ANYYY GRURL CAN GIT A HAWT GUY IF SHEE PUT HER MIND TO IT. YOURR READERS IN CALII LOVE YOU! KEEP IT UP YUU MAKE MEE SO HAPPE! -LOCVE LIZZ

  41. LIFEASSLIZ

    I TOTE5 AGREE WITH YOU. I WEIGH 232 POUNDS AND I AM 10 YEAR OLD AND I JUST LUVV URRRE BLOGSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I THANK ANYYY GRURL CAN GIT A HAWT GUY IF SHEE PUT HER MIND TO IT. YOURR READERS IN CALII LOVE YOU! KEEP IT UP YUU MAKE MEE SO HAPPE! -LOCVE LIZZ

  42. sak_uto@hotmail.com

    I TOTE5 AGREE WITH YOU. I WEIGH 232 POUNDS AND I AM 10 YEAR OLD AND I JUST LUVV URRRE BLOGSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I THANK ANYYY GRURL CAN GIT A HAWT GUY IF SHEE PUT HER MIND TO IT. YOURR READERS IN CALII LOVE YOU! KEEP IT UP YUU MAKE MEE SO HAPPE! -LOCVE LIZZ

  43. sak_uto@hotmail.com

    I TOTE5 AGREE WITH YOU. I WEIGH 232 POUNDS AND I AM 10 YEAR OLD AND I JUST LUVV URRRE BLOGSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I THANK ANYYY GRURL CAN GIT A HAWT GUY IF SHEE PUT HER MIND TO IT. YOURR READERS IN CALII LOVE YOU! KEEP IT UP YUU MAKE MEE SO HAPPE! -LOCVE LIZZ

  44. colormebadoh@yahoo.com

    I love your blog. You should turn it into a screen play for a movie. I’ve been asked out by a superhot guy but I didn’t have nerve to say yes. Everywhere we went girls were staring at him. He did tell me he liked me just the way I was though.

  45. colormebadoh@yahoo.com

    I love your blog. You should turn it into a screen play for a movie. I’ve been asked out by a superhot guy but I didn’t have nerve to say yes. Everywhere we went girls were staring at him. He did tell me he liked me just the way I was though.

  46. smiles

    I love your blog. You should turn it into a screen play for a movie. I’ve been asked out by a superhot guy but I didn’t have nerve to say yes. Everywhere we went girls were staring at him. He did tell me he liked me just the way I was though.

  47. smiles

    I love your blog. You should turn it into a screen play for a movie. I’ve been asked out by a superhot guy but I didn’t have nerve to say yes. Everywhere we went girls were staring at him. He did tell me he liked me just the way I was though.

  48. Dunnamanda42

    Hey! I have never done this before. But I’m really discouraged! What the hell is wrong with men? I’m 40, I am over weigh, but not gobby fat, I have been told I’m very pretty. I can’t get a date! I don’t want a husband; I dont even think I want a boyfriend or relationship. I just want a “Friend with Benefits”! Whats wrong with me?!? I work & dont need anyone to pay my bills, or do anything else for me except be my friend & have sex! Is that really so hard to get?

    1. Yoliebee

      No, it’s not hard to get. I have guys that only wanna screw me coming out of my ears. Give me your email address, I could send 100 your way. If you can’t find a no strings attached guy, then you’re going about it all wrong. Put up a profile on Plentyoffish.com or “POF”. Say you’re looking to “hang out” or even use the “intimate encounter” category. Put up a couple of cute pics, nothing too revealing, let them use their imagination, and you’ll get more responses than you can handle. Young, old, short, tall, thin, fat, white black and every color in between. My problem is finding someone who wants more than sex from me, and those guys are few and far between. Of course, I will say, having a fwb is not the answer. If you aren’t well practiced at controlling your emotions, you’ll just fall for him. Trust me on that mess, it’s tough.

  49. Dunnamanda42

    Hey! I have never done this before. But I’m really discouraged! What the hell is wrong with men? I’m 40, I am over weigh, but not gobby fat, I have been told I’m very pretty. I can’t get a date! I don’t want a husband; I dont even think I want a boyfriend or relationship. I just want a “Friend with Benefits”! Whats wrong with me?!? I work & dont need anyone to pay my bills, or do anything else for me except be my friend & have sex! Is that really so hard to get?

    1. Yoliebee

      No, it’s not hard to get. I have guys that only wanna screw me coming out of my ears. Give me your email address, I could send 100 your way. If you can’t find a no strings attached guy, then you’re going about it all wrong. Put up a profile on Plentyoffish.com or “POF”. Say you’re looking to “hang out” or even use the “intimate encounter” category. Put up a couple of cute pics, nothing too revealing, let them use their imagination, and you’ll get more responses than you can handle. Young, old, short, tall, thin, fat, white black and every color in between. My problem is finding someone who wants more than sex from me, and those guys are few and far between. Of course, I will say, having a fwb is not the answer. If you aren’t well practiced at controlling your emotions, you’ll just fall for him. Trust me on that mess, it’s tough.

  50. dunnamanda42@yahoo.com

    Hey! I have never done this before. But I’m really discouraged! What the hell is wrong with men? I’m 40, I am over weigh, but not gobby fat, I have been told I’m very pretty. I can’t get a date! I don’t want a husband; I dont even think I want a boyfriend or relationship. I just want a “Friend with Benefits”! Whats wrong with me?!? I work & dont need anyone to pay my bills, or do anything else for me except be my friend & have sex! Is that really so hard to get?

    1. alaundale@yahoo.com

      No, it’s not hard to get. I have guys that only wanna screw me coming out of my ears. Give me your email address, I could send 100 your way. If you can’t find a no strings attached guy, then you’re going about it all wrong. Put up a profile on Plentyoffish.com or “POF”. Say you’re looking to “hang out” or even use the “intimate encounter” category. Put up a couple of cute pics, nothing too revealing, let them use their imagination, and you’ll get more responses than you can handle. Young, old, short, tall, thin, fat, white black and every color in between. My problem is finding someone who wants more than sex from me, and those guys are few and far between. Of course, I will say, having a fwb is not the answer. If you aren’t well practiced at controlling your emotions, you’ll just fall for him. Trust me on that mess, it’s tough.

  51. dunnamanda42@yahoo.com

    Hey! I have never done this before. But I’m really discouraged! What the hell is wrong with men? I’m 40, I am over weigh, but not gobby fat, I have been told I’m very pretty. I can’t get a date! I don’t want a husband; I dont even think I want a boyfriend or relationship. I just want a “Friend with Benefits”! Whats wrong with me?!? I work & dont need anyone to pay my bills, or do anything else for me except be my friend & have sex! Is that really so hard to get?

    1. alaundale@yahoo.com

      No, it’s not hard to get. I have guys that only wanna screw me coming out of my ears. Give me your email address, I could send 100 your way. If you can’t find a no strings attached guy, then you’re going about it all wrong. Put up a profile on Plentyoffish.com or “POF”. Say you’re looking to “hang out” or even use the “intimate encounter” category. Put up a couple of cute pics, nothing too revealing, let them use their imagination, and you’ll get more responses than you can handle. Young, old, short, tall, thin, fat, white black and every color in between. My problem is finding someone who wants more than sex from me, and those guys are few and far between. Of course, I will say, having a fwb is not the answer. If you aren’t well practiced at controlling your emotions, you’ll just fall for him. Trust me on that mess, it’s tough.

  52. Jackie Gillespie

    I’m dating a “hot guy” and you’re right, women judge him for not dating a skinny girl. All his guy friends are jealous for seriously scoring a good one. One of his buds who claimed they would never date a ‘fat chick’, met me, and apologized publicly for being so closed minded. He had no idea a PSP could be ‘hot’. Now admittedly, I get some interesting looks because my guy happens to be paraplegic and confined to a wheelchair ( I tell you what though the built in exercise that comes with that… the arms and chest on this man *drools*) so a lot of the time people this we’re settling for each other because who would want us?

  53. Jackie Gillespie

    I’m dating a “hot guy” and you’re right, women judge him for not dating a skinny girl. All his guy friends are jealous for seriously scoring a good one. One of his buds who claimed they would never date a ‘fat chick’, met me, and apologized publicly for being so closed minded. He had no idea a PSP could be ‘hot’. Now admittedly, I get some interesting looks because my guy happens to be paraplegic and confined to a wheelchair ( I tell you what though the built in exercise that comes with that… the arms and chest on this man *drools*) so a lot of the time people this we’re settling for each other because who would want us?

  54. Anonymous

    I’m dating a “hot guy” and you’re right, women judge him for not dating a skinny girl. All his guy friends are jealous for seriously scoring a good one. One of his buds who claimed they would never date a ‘fat chick’, met me, and apologized publicly for being so closed minded. He had no idea a PSP could be ‘hot’. Now admittedly, I get some interesting looks because my guy happens to be paraplegic and confined to a wheelchair ( I tell you what though the built in exercise that comes with that… the arms and chest on this man *drools*) so a lot of the time people this we’re settling for each other because who would want us?

  55. Anonymous

    I’m dating a “hot guy” and you’re right, women judge him for not dating a skinny girl. All his guy friends are jealous for seriously scoring a good one. One of his buds who claimed they would never date a ‘fat chick’, met me, and apologized publicly for being so closed minded. He had no idea a PSP could be ‘hot’. Now admittedly, I get some interesting looks because my guy happens to be paraplegic and confined to a wheelchair ( I tell you what though the built in exercise that comes with that… the arms and chest on this man *drools*) so a lot of the time people this we’re settling for each other because who would want us?

  56. Yoliebee

    Same here, babe! When I’m online dating, I get the worst guys, and I hate to be mean, but 20 years older or really short, or Indian or something is just not my thing. Just because I’m plus sized does not mean I’m desperate. I’m beautiful, smart, successful and I’m a catch. I’d like a man who treats me as such.

  57. alaundale@yahoo.com

    Same here, babe! When I’m online dating, I get the worst guys, and I hate to be mean, but 20 years older or really short, or Indian or something is just not my thing. Just because I’m plus sized does not mean I’m desperate. I’m beautiful, smart, successful and I’m a catch. I’d like a man who treats me as such.

  58. DKells

    I know exactly what you mean. My current boyfriend is jaw droppingly gorgeous. His ex was a size 2 and I’m a size 12. We worked together and clicked straight away. Remained friends because he had a girlfriend at the time. He then broke up with her and a month or so later asked me out. I was shocked. Although I felt we had a special connection, I just thought physically, he wouldn’t be interested. Not because I’m down on myself, I think I’m beautiful! But whilst I’m not huge, I’m definitely “too fat” for a lot of guys out there, and especially guys who look like him.

    But after a few dates he actually confessed he’d liked me for ages and that his ex (who I’d been introduced to at work functions) used to constantly quiz him about me because I was physically more “his usual type”. He said her jealousy ruined the relationship.
    She wasn’t over him and when she found out we were dating, hurled abuse at me through facebook. All her insults were “you fat this” and “you fat that”. I’m sure she would have thrown abuse at any girl he was dating but it was definitely like she was insulted that he had picked a “fat girl” over her.

    Weirdly enough, dating him has made me more secure. Seeing and hearing about his ex in her full on insecure crazy, just proved that it’s destructive behaviour. If a guy is going to cheat on you, he will. If he’s going to leave you for someone else, he will. Worrying about it constantly won’t change that, and if anything, it will only drive him away. Love yourself, and the right man will love you too. And if he doesn’t, it’s his loss.

  59. DKells

    I know exactly what you mean. My current boyfriend is jaw droppingly gorgeous. His ex was a size 2 and I’m a size 12. We worked together and clicked straight away. Remained friends because he had a girlfriend at the time. He then broke up with her and a month or so later asked me out. I was shocked. Although I felt we had a special connection, I just thought physically, he wouldn’t be interested. Not because I’m down on myself, I think I’m beautiful! But whilst I’m not huge, I’m definitely “too fat” for a lot of guys out there, and especially guys who look like him.

    But after a few dates he actually confessed he’d liked me for ages and that his ex (who I’d been introduced to at work functions) used to constantly quiz him about me because I was physically more “his usual type”. He said her jealousy ruined the relationship.
    She wasn’t over him and when she found out we were dating, hurled abuse at me through facebook. All her insults were “you fat this” and “you fat that”. I’m sure she would have thrown abuse at any girl he was dating but it was definitely like she was insulted that he had picked a “fat girl” over her.

    Weirdly enough, dating him has made me more secure. Seeing and hearing about his ex in her full on insecure crazy, just proved that it’s destructive behaviour. If a guy is going to cheat on you, he will. If he’s going to leave you for someone else, he will. Worrying about it constantly won’t change that, and if anything, it will only drive him away. Love yourself, and the right man will love you too. And if he doesn’t, it’s his loss.

  60. dkkelly88@googlemail.com

    I know exactly what you mean. My current boyfriend is jaw droppingly gorgeous. His ex was a size 2 and I’m a size 12. We worked together and clicked straight away. Remained friends because he had a girlfriend at the time. He then broke up with her and a month or so later asked me out. I was shocked. Although I felt we had a special connection, I just thought physically, he wouldn’t be interested. Not because I’m down on myself, I think I’m beautiful! But whilst I’m not huge, I’m definitely “too fat” for a lot of guys out there, and especially guys who look like him.
    But after a few dates he actually confessed he’d liked me for ages and that his ex (who I’d been introduced to at work functions) used to constantly quiz him about me because I was physically more “his usual type”. He said her jealousy ruined the relationship.
    She wasn’t over him and when she found out we were dating, hurled abuse at me through facebook. All her insults were “you fat this” and “you fat that”. I’m sure she would have thrown abuse at any girl he was dating but it was definitely like she was insulted that he had picked a “fat girl” over her.

    Weirdly enough, dating him has made me more secure. Seeing and hearing about his ex in her full on insecure crazy, just proved that it’s destructive behaviour. If a guy is going to cheat on you, he will. If he’s going to leave you for someone else, he will. Worrying about it constantly won’t change that, and if anything, it will only drive him away. Love yourself, and the right man will love you too. And if he doesn’t, it’s his loss.

  61. dkkelly88@googlemail.com

    I know exactly what you mean. My current boyfriend is jaw droppingly gorgeous. His ex was a size 2 and I’m a size 12. We worked together and clicked straight away. Remained friends because he had a girlfriend at the time. He then broke up with her and a month or so later asked me out. I was shocked. Although I felt we had a special connection, I just thought physically, he wouldn’t be interested. Not because I’m down on myself, I think I’m beautiful! But whilst I’m not huge, I’m definitely “too fat” for a lot of guys out there, and especially guys who look like him.
    But after a few dates he actually confessed he’d liked me for ages and that his ex (who I’d been introduced to at work functions) used to constantly quiz him about me because I was physically more “his usual type”. He said her jealousy ruined the relationship.
    She wasn’t over him and when she found out we were dating, hurled abuse at me through facebook. All her insults were “you fat this” and “you fat that”. I’m sure she would have thrown abuse at any girl he was dating but it was definitely like she was insulted that he had picked a “fat girl” over her.

    Weirdly enough, dating him has made me more secure. Seeing and hearing about his ex in her full on insecure crazy, just proved that it’s destructive behaviour. If a guy is going to cheat on you, he will. If he’s going to leave you for someone else, he will. Worrying about it constantly won’t change that, and if anything, it will only drive him away. Love yourself, and the right man will love you too. And if he doesn’t, it’s his loss.

  62. Anonymous

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  63. Mallorytiffany

    Oh my how I wish I would have read this when you posted it. I was dating this really hot charning guy and he always wanted to go out and do things togeeether but my own insecurities totally messed things up between us. I wouldn’t alow myself to gain the same confidence with him as I have haad in previuos relationships when the guys waas just okay looking. If I knew then what I know now oh how I would have done things so much differently.

  64. Mallorytiffany

    Oh my how I wish I would have read this when you posted it. I was dating this really hot charning guy and he always wanted to go out and do things togeeether but my own insecurities totally messed things up between us. I wouldn’t alow myself to gain the same confidence with him as I have haad in previuos relationships when the guys waas just okay looking. If I knew then what I know now oh how I would have done things so much differently.

  65. mallorytiffany@gmail.com

    Oh my how I wish I would have read this when you posted it. I was dating this really hot charning guy and he always wanted to go out and do things togeeether but my own insecurities totally messed things up between us. I wouldn’t alow myself to gain the same confidence with him as I have haad in previuos relationships when the guys waas just okay looking. If I knew then what I know now oh how I would have done things so much differently.

  66. mallorytiffany@gmail.com

    Oh my how I wish I would have read this when you posted it. I was dating this really hot charning guy and he always wanted to go out and do things togeeether but my own insecurities totally messed things up between us. I wouldn’t alow myself to gain the same confidence with him as I have haad in previuos relationships when the guys waas just okay looking. If I knew then what I know now oh how I would have done things so much differently.

  67. EricaJ

    i know this is old but i am new to ur blog and i swear i have had this samw reaction when im out with my man or when people meet him for the first time.. people assume im dating an ogre since i’m a big girl…what tips could u give me to boost my confidence because i know i am beautiful, but some people assume my man is supposed to be ugly since im big no matter how pretty i am and it bothers me when girls blatantly disrespect me or do it behind my back… ๐Ÿ™

  68. EricaJ

    i know this is old but i am new to ur blog and i swear i have had this samw reaction when im out with my man or when people meet him for the first time.. people assume im dating an ogre since i’m a big girl…what tips could u give me to boost my confidence because i know i am beautiful, but some people assume my man is supposed to be ugly since im big no matter how pretty i am and it bothers me when girls blatantly disrespect me or do it behind my back… ๐Ÿ™

  69. ERICaJ201@gmail.com

    i know this is old but i am new to ur blog and i swear i have had this samw reaction when im out with my man or when people meet him for the first time.. people assume im dating an ogre since i’m a big girl…what tips could u give me to boost my confidence because i know i am beautiful, but some people assume my man is supposed to be ugly since im big no matter how pretty i am and it bothers me when girls blatantly disrespect me or do it behind my back… ๐Ÿ™

  70. ERICaJ201@gmail.com

    i know this is old but i am new to ur blog and i swear i have had this samw reaction when im out with my man or when people meet him for the first time.. people assume im dating an ogre since i’m a big girl…what tips could u give me to boost my confidence because i know i am beautiful, but some people assume my man is supposed to be ugly since im big no matter how pretty i am and it bothers me when girls blatantly disrespect me or do it behind my back… ๐Ÿ™

  71. Jaded

    When I was in college, I couldn’t believe this super hot guy was into me. His exes were really hot. We have a long history of not getting together. Totally the one that got away for me. I learned my lesson, and to stop letting my insecurities get in the way.

  72. Jaded

    When I was in college, I couldn’t believe this super hot guy was into me. His exes were really hot. We have a long history of not getting together. Totally the one that got away for me. I learned my lesson, and to stop letting my insecurities get in the way.

  73. jame96@me.com

    When I was in college, I couldn’t believe this super hot guy was into me. His exes were really hot. We have a long history of not getting together. Totally the one that got away for me. I learned my lesson, and to stop letting my insecurities get in the way.

  74. jame96@me.com

    When I was in college, I couldn’t believe this super hot guy was into me. His exes were really hot. We have a long history of not getting together. Totally the one that got away for me. I learned my lesson, and to stop letting my insecurities get in the way.

  75. Anonymous

    […] navigating through the fact that some people don’t think we “match”, like the girl who was shocked when she saw his picture, or last month when Robert was buying my drinks all night, sitting right next to me, but a girl […]

  76. Kim Woldoff Barsky

    I was in a relationship with this guy who whenever I saw him or people met him were always staring at him or saying how hot he was..It made me feel insecure bevause even when we moved in together and I was scared to ever meet his friends because I thought they would judge why he was with me…mind you I was 20 or 21…It was like he lowered my self esteem..Now at 30 I know I was crazy!

  77. Kim Woldoff Barsky

    I was in a relationship with this guy who whenever I saw him or people met him were always staring at him or saying how hot he was..It made me feel insecure bevause even when we moved in together and I was scared to ever meet his friends because I thought they would judge why he was with me…mind you I was 20 or 21…It was like he lowered my self esteem..Now at 30 I know I was crazy!

  78. Anonymous

    I was in a relationship with this guy who whenever I saw him or people met him were always staring at him or saying how hot he was..It made me feel insecure bevause even when we moved in together and I was scared to ever meet his friends because I thought they would judge why he was with me…mind you I was 20 or 21…It was like he lowered my self esteem..Now at 30 I know I was crazy!

  79. Anonymous

    I was in a relationship with this guy who whenever I saw him or people met him were always staring at him or saying how hot he was..It made me feel insecure bevause even when we moved in together and I was scared to ever meet his friends because I thought they would judge why he was with me…mind you I was 20 or 21…It was like he lowered my self esteem..Now at 30 I know I was crazy!

  80. SuperJewGirl

    Thank you for writing this! The last guy I dated was a former model and even though I could see how much he liked me I had a really hard time believing he could be into size 16 me. I still feel disbelieving and suspicious when good looking guys flirt with me. I’m working so hard to break the stereotypes and prejudices that fat girls are ugly, don’t deserve love or should settle for anyone who will take them, but it’s so hard to undo a lifetime of programming from society, hollywood and the fashion industry!

  81. SuperJewGirl

    Thank you for writing this! The last guy I dated was a former model and even though I could see how much he liked me I had a really hard time believing he could be into size 16 me. I still feel disbelieving and suspicious when good looking guys flirt with me. I’m working so hard to break the stereotypes and prejudices that fat girls are ugly, don’t deserve love or should settle for anyone who will take them, but it’s so hard to undo a lifetime of programming from society, hollywood and the fashion industry!

  82. sarahnechama@yahoo.com

    Thank you for writing this! The last guy I dated was a former model and even though I could see how much he liked me I had a really hard time believing he could be into size 16 me. I still feel disbelieving and suspicious when good looking guys flirt with me. I’m working so hard to break the stereotypes and prejudices that fat girls are ugly, don’t deserve love or should settle for anyone who will take them, but it’s so hard to undo a lifetime of programming from society, hollywood and the fashion industry!

  83. sarahnechama@yahoo.com

    Thank you for writing this! The last guy I dated was a former model and even though I could see how much he liked me I had a really hard time believing he could be into size 16 me. I still feel disbelieving and suspicious when good looking guys flirt with me. I’m working so hard to break the stereotypes and prejudices that fat girls are ugly, don’t deserve love or should settle for anyone who will take them, but it’s so hard to undo a lifetime of programming from society, hollywood and the fashion industry!

  84. TheRealist

    One in a million. I’m lucky in I’m treated like a proper human being by men as they pass me over for skinny girls all the time. The rule is you can’t find love until you are skinny, that’s what I’ve learned from my experiences…and I’m not coming at this as if I look like Beyonce.

  85. TheRealist

    One in a million. I’m lucky in I’m treated like a proper human being by men as they pass me over for skinny girls all the time. The rule is you can’t find love until you are skinny, that’s what I’ve learned from my experiences…and I’m not coming at this as if I look like Beyonce.

  86. earthgirlhottie7@msn.com

    One in a million. I’m lucky in I’m treated like a proper human being by men as they pass me over for skinny girls all the time. The rule is you can’t find love until you are skinny, that’s what I’ve learned from my experiences…and I’m not coming at this as if I look like Beyonce.

  87. earthgirlhottie7@msn.com

    One in a million. I’m lucky in I’m treated like a proper human being by men as they pass me over for skinny girls all the time. The rule is you can’t find love until you are skinny, that’s what I’ve learned from my experiences…and I’m not coming at this as if I look like Beyonce.

  88. fluorescentplatypus

    Cece, I found your blog about a month ago and just wanted to thank youv for having the courage, wit and heart to do what you do. You inspire me every time I visit here (which ALWAYS ends up being way longer than I expect but that’s okay) and you give me hope. I’m 20 years old, but I wanna be you when I grow up! xoxo

  89. fluorescentplatypus

    Cece, I found your blog about a month ago and just wanted to thank youv for having the courage, wit and heart to do what you do. You inspire me every time I visit here (which ALWAYS ends up being way longer than I expect but that’s okay) and you give me hope. I’m 20 years old, but I wanna be you when I grow up! xoxo

  90. laurengarretson@gmail.com

    Cece, I found your blog about a month ago and just wanted to thank youv for having the courage, wit and heart to do what you do. You inspire me every time I visit here (which ALWAYS ends up being way longer than I expect but that’s okay) and you give me hope. I’m 20 years old, but I wanna be you when I grow up! xoxo

  91. laurengarretson@gmail.com

    Cece, I found your blog about a month ago and just wanted to thank youv for having the courage, wit and heart to do what you do. You inspire me every time I visit here (which ALWAYS ends up being way longer than I expect but that’s okay) and you give me hope. I’m 20 years old, but I wanna be you when I grow up! xoxo

  92. Guest

    I have a huge crush over a super hot guy but he just seemed not into me. He doesn’t like plus size women. ๐Ÿ™ i cant even look at the mirror now.

  93. Guest

    I have a huge crush over a super hot guy but he just seemed not into me. He doesn’t like plus size women. ๐Ÿ™ i cant even look at the mirror now.

  94. anonymized-1032218744@disqus.com

    I have a huge crush over a super hot guy but he just seemed not into me. He doesn’t like plus size women. ๐Ÿ™ i cant even look at the mirror now.

  95. anonymized-1032218744@disqus.com

    I have a huge crush over a super hot guy but he just seemed not into me. He doesn’t like plus size women. ๐Ÿ™ i cant even look at the mirror now.

  96. Jessa

    Nope never dated in general actually. I think the plus size thing for you helps because you’re white. Sorry but try being a black woman and plus size.

  97. flyajess@gmail.com

    Nope never dated in general actually. I think the plus size thing for you helps because you’re white. Sorry but try being a black woman and plus size.

  98. Lukey Dee

    Beauty is what you make it, like art it is subjective and everyone has their independant idea of what it is. Society’s idea of what beauty is is a commercially generated lie. Be yourself, be confident, give love.

  99. lukeedee@hotmail.co.uk

    Beauty is what you make it, like art it is subjective and everyone has their independant idea of what it is. Society’s idea of what beauty is is a commercially generated lie. Be yourself, be confident, give love.

  100. Renie

    I’m 40, and I have never been on a date in my life. Never had a boyfriend, kissed, cuddled, still a virgin. I just have my crushes on guys I know I can never have. There are other reasons I’ve never done any of that stuff, but I shan’t bore you all with them. Does that make me a freak? ๐Ÿ™

  101. noone@hotmail.com

    I’m 40, and I have never been on a date in my life. Never had a boyfriend, kissed, cuddled, still a virgin. I just have my crushes on guys I know I can never have. There are other reasons I’ve never done any of that stuff, but I shan’t bore you all with them. Does that make me a freak? ๐Ÿ™

  102. Thick and Confident

    I am a “plus size” woman that married a very attractive and fine man. I think what makes any man notice you is your self confidence, how YOU feel about YOURSELF. I am beautiful and fashionable. I was never afraid to enter into this relationship because I’ve been hurt before by men that are less attractive. It doesn’t matter what the male looks like, it’s his character that makes them dishonest or not. My husband is the first man that ever attempted to know me for me and accept me flaws and all but he’s not perfect either. Perfection does not exist in any shape form or fashion. I do not put him on a pedastal, we put each other on a pedestal. We compliment each other very well. When a beautiful smaller woman passes by, I’m never intimidated. He got down on one knee and asked ME to marry HIM not the other way around.

  103. hayslipclay@aol.com

    I am a “plus size” woman that married a very attractive and fine man. I think what makes any man notice you is your self confidence, how YOU feel about YOURSELF. I am beautiful and fashionable. I was never afraid to enter into this relationship because I’ve been hurt before by men that are less attractive. It doesn’t matter what the male looks like, it’s his character that makes them dishonest or not. My husband is the first man that ever attempted to know me for me and accept me flaws and all but he’s not perfect either. Perfection does not exist in any shape form or fashion. I do not put him on a pedastal, we put each other on a pedestal. We compliment each other very well. When a beautiful smaller woman passes by, I’m never intimidated. He got down on one knee and asked ME to marry HIM not the other way around.

  104. Kitty

    I seriously need to start thinking like you ladies!! The guys I am attracted to, I end up not doing anything about because I am too insecure that he will not like me because of my size. I am currently attracted to a guy that is 11 years older than me. I love his personality and it makes me all the more attracted to him (he is physically attractive too)… I have this mental block up that tells me not to do anything about it because he won’t like me. It doesn’t help that I’ve seen what his ex looks like (model type… high possibility she actually was a model) … I need to have more confidence in myself, I just don’t know how.

  105. angelica.obrien@gmail.com

    I seriously need to start thinking like you ladies!! The guys I am attracted to, I end up not doing anything about because I am too insecure that he will not like me because of my size. I am currently attracted to a guy that is 11 years older than me. I love his personality and it makes me all the more attracted to him (he is physically attractive too)… I have this mental block up that tells me not to do anything about it because he won’t like me. It doesn’t help that I’ve seen what his ex looks like (model type… high possibility she actually was a model) … I need to have more confidence in myself, I just don’t know how.

  106. NinaRose

    I know it’s a long time ago, but I still want to get my word out on this. You’re telling her not to take it out on thin girls, but thin girls are constantly taking it out on plus-size girls.
    Chelsey Bax from TYT University said: Kate Upton is overweight! For a supermodel she has a horrific body! Oh, and Jennifer Lawrence has an ok body…for a curvy girl.
    I get mean comments from my ridiculously hot husband’s ex for not being her size; she’s 6’2″ and weighs around 123 lbs. I’m 5’5″ and weigh 170 lbs. She was not a very beautiful woman though, just tall and thin and she didn’t treat my husband very well when they were together. Nothing can stop her from daily sending me rude, mean messages on Facebook though. Just a few tiny examples from her rich vocabulary:”Wow, I can’t believe Gianni would ever steep so low as to actually date the very species he loves to eat. Good luck with your new hubby miss Piggy.” “I don’t care how young you are, or how big your breasts are, in the back of your silly mind you know that he’ll never be as attracted to you as he was to me. Or did you actually think he’d prefer a land whale over a fit, slim body? Delusional b****.” While I know she says it out of resentment, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt me. It makes me cry everyday, as I already had some confidence issues to begin with- and my husband has been working so hard to make me feel appreciated, loved and beautiful to/by him. Everyday, my husband tries to give me the confidence I need, only to be brought down by the messages she writes me everyday.
    My single “friends” who are all hotter than me and skinny/fit couldn’t help but make snappy comments at my wedding day. I was wearing a beautiful dress, had my hair and make-up done professionally for the first time in my life, I had jewelry given to me by my mom. My husband looked just amazing in his beautiful tux. Everyone could see the happiness just drip off our faces as I walked down the isle. At the party, my maid of honor said to another girl:”I don’t get what Gianni sees in that fat virgin (I stayed a virgin until I married), I mean she looks pretty today but you can put a pretty dress on a pig, it’s still a pig right?” The other girl nodded in agreement. My other friend said:”Sweetheart, don’t take this the wrong way, but your hubby is so attractive- don’t you think you went a little out of your league with him? In 2 years, you’ll have his baby, you’ll be even bigger and then he might cheat on you with someone thinner and prettier. I just don’t wanna see you get hurt love.” More comments like that were made- ON MY WEDDING DAY. There are many more examples from before that, it’s just I never thought people would be so evil to say that kind of stuff on your wedding day. If all your life you hear that sh** from everyone around you, mainly thin people who spend lots of time on their looks and expect to be praised for it constantly, don’t you think it’ll make you a little bitter towards that kind of people? Oh and don’t even get me started on the ugly guys I considered ‘in my league’ who went to the gym maybe 2x a year and turned me down saying ‘I went on this date with you because you’re sweet and kind, but I want a woman who takes care of her body aka a 100lb 6ft2 tall supermodel with a striking face which you obviously don’t have.’ I went on a date with them because I look beyond the surface and see the beauty within and I expected the same from them. Tell me, after a lifetime of bias towards your bodytype from thin people you wouldn’t be even a tiny bit bitter.

    1. jessa

      Why on earth did you not block that salty bitch? Also, why the hell are you surrounding yourself with fake fake bitches who’s pussy is probably falling out by the time they were married? IF their married. Girrlll I could not be you. That all would have been shut down from day one.

    2. QuiteContrary

      So, what I’m reading is that the ex wife DOES care how young you are and how big your breasts are…

      Also, get the hell away from every single person who acts like that to you, even if that leaves you alone. Lonely-sad is WAY better than (emotionally) beat up sad any day.

  107. carolina_1992@live.nl

    I know it’s a long time ago, but I still want to get my word out on this. You’re telling her not to take it out on thin girls, but thin girls are constantly taking it out on plus-size girls.Chelsey Bax from TYT University said: Kate Upton is overweight! For a supermodel she has a horrific body! Oh, and Jennifer Lawrence has an ok body…for a curvy girl.
    I get mean comments from my ridiculously hot husband’s ex for not being her size; she’s 6’2″ and weighs around 123 lbs. I’m 5’5″ and weigh 170 lbs. She was not a very beautiful woman though, just tall and thin and she didn’t treat my husband very well when they were together. Nothing can stop her from daily sending me rude, mean messages on Facebook though. Just a few tiny examples from her rich vocabulary:”Wow, I can’t believe Gianni would ever steep so low as to actually date the very species he loves to eat. Good luck with your new hubby miss Piggy.” “I don’t care how young you are, or how big your breasts are, in the back of your silly mind you know that he’ll never be as attracted to you as he was to me. Or did you actually think he’d prefer a land whale over a fit, slim body? Delusional b****.” While I know she says it out of resentment, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt me. It makes me cry everyday, as I already had some confidence issues to begin with- and my husband has been working so hard to make me feel appreciated, loved and beautiful to/by him. Everyday, my husband tries to give me the confidence I need, only to be brought down by the messages she writes me everyday.
    My single “friends” who are all hotter than me and skinny/fit couldn’t help but make snappy comments at my wedding day. I was wearing a beautiful dress, had my hair and make-up done professionally for the first time in my life, I had jewelry given to me by my mom. My husband looked just amazing in his beautiful tux. Everyone could see the happiness just drip off our faces as I walked down the isle. At the party, my maid of honor said to another girl:”I don’t get what Gianni sees in that fat virgin (I stayed a virgin until I married), I mean she looks pretty today but you can put a pretty dress on a pig, it’s still a pig right?” The other girl nodded in agreement. My other friend said:”Sweetheart, don’t take this the wrong way, but your hubby is so attractive- don’t you think you went a little out of your league with him? In 2 years, you’ll have his baby, you’ll be even bigger and then he might cheat on you with someone thinner and prettier. I just don’t wanna see you get hurt love.” More comments like that were made- ON MY WEDDING DAY. There are many more examples from before that, it’s just I never thought people would be so evil to say that kind of stuff on your wedding day. If all your life you hear that sh** from everyone around you, mainly thin people who spend lots of time on their looks and expect to be praised for it constantly, don’t you think it’ll make you a little bitter towards that kind of people? Oh and don’t even get me started on the ugly guys I considered ‘in my league’ who went to the gym maybe 2x a year and turned me down saying ‘I went on this date with you because you’re sweet and kind, but I want a woman who takes care of her body aka a 100lb 6ft2 tall supermodel with a striking face which you obviously don’t have.’ I went on a date with them because I look beyond the surface and see the beauty within and I expected the same from them. Tell me, after a lifetime of bias towards your bodytype from thin people you wouldn’t be even a tiny bit bitter.

    1. flyajess@gmail.com

      Why on earth did you not block that salty bitch? Also, why the hell are you surrounding yourself with fake fake bitches who’s pussy is probably falling out by the time they were married? IF their married. Girrlll I could not be you. That all would have been shut down from day one.

    2. amarie@carpedictum.com

      So, what I’m reading is that the ex wife DOES care how young you are and how big your breasts are…
      Also, get the hell away from every single person who acts like that to you, even if that leaves you alone. Lonely-sad is WAY better than (emotionally) beat up sad any day.

  108. redlucy37

    I have dated all sorts of guys. Some hot guys and some ok guys. I am now 39 and my self-esteem is beyond low. I meet crazy men, men just out of relationships or I meet just wanna have “fun” guys. All my friends are in stable relationships. I’m always the single one. It makes me feel like I’m not good enough and something must be wrong with me. My friends always tell me, there’s someone out there for you. Which I always believed and hoped was true. Now, I”ve stopped trying and have pretty much given up. I do prefer a fit guy but I never have any guys interested in me unless it’s just for sex.

    1. A guy

      Sorry to hear about your experiences but don’t give up on finding the right guy for you. As a guy myself I realise that there are a lot of guys who’re not really serious about a relationship out there.

    2. blue8011

      As a guy who’s a couple of years younger than you I know the feeling. I mean, I get dates but the women I meet are mostly gym bunnies who seem too superficial. Might not be that surprising considering that I’m quite fit myself but don’t want to date women who are not looking for a committed relationship. Not saying I’m all about the ring and marriage just out of the box, but purely sexual relationships? That’s a no go for me.

      Mostly I’d prefer a woman on the plus size side of the scale, not so much into fitness girls. If this sounds promising you can always drop me a comment.

  109. bodison37@gmail.com

    I have dated all sorts of guys. Some hot guys and some ok guys. I am now 39 and my self-esteem is beyond low. I meet crazy men, men just out of relationships or I meet just wanna have “fun” guys. All my friends are in stable relationships. I’m always the single one. It makes me feel like I’m not good enough and something must be wrong with me. My friends always tell me, there’s someone out there for you. Which I always believed and hoped was true. Now, I”ve stopped trying and have pretty much given up. I do prefer a fit guy but I never have any guys interested in me unless it’s just for sex.

    1. villogglad@gmail.com

      Sorry to hear about your experiences but don’t give up on finding the right guy for you. As a guy myself I realise that there are a lot of guys who’re not really serious about a relationship out there.

    2. villogglad@gmail.com

      As a guy who’s a couple of years younger than you I know the feeling. I mean, I get dates but the women I meet are mostly gym bunnies who seem too superficial. Might not be that surprising considering that I’m quite fit myself but don’t want to date women who are not looking for a committed relationship. Not saying I’m all about the ring and marriage just out of the box, but purely sexual relationships? That’s a no go for me.

      Mostly I’d prefer a woman on the plus size side of the scale, not so much into fitness girls. If this sounds promising you can always drop me a comment.

  110. valeria

    hahahahahahahahahahahahah I love this entry!! Actually I really like a skinny guy <3 but i am scared to talk to him because of my weight. ๐Ÿ™ I am still learning how to accept myself <# and love the way i look. Thnaks

  111. itzelvvizcarra@gmail.com

    hahahahahahahahahahahahah I love this entry!! Actually I really like a skinny guy <3 but i am scared to talk to him because of my weight. ๐Ÿ™ I am still learning how to accept myself <# and love the way i look. Thnaks

  112. texasbrittany72@gmail.com

    Yes I know about the thing where ugly guys think that because they told me they love me, that I should then just automatically give myself to them completely and f*** them right then and there! Apparently men and women think that a girl like me should just lay down and get some whenever someone shows the least bit of interest in me. But, call me shallow and superficial, I happen to believe that physical attraction is a two way street. It does not work if just one half of the couple is attracted to the other. And I think it’s very unfair to me to expect me to sacrifice myself to a guy that I just don’t think is cute or sexy. I just got rid of one ugly nerd boy, and am about to have to get rid of a short, chubby plain guy. With those guys it’s me, me, me, I, I, I,! I want what I want and to Hell with your feelings! Give it to me, now! What about me, people? What about what I want? And by the way, this is how the nerd looks! Yuck! You really think we’re a good match?! I’m a lot prettier than him! I think I deserve better! And by the way, he doesn’t show me the proper respect!

  113. Brittany Thomas

    Yes I know about the thing where ugly guys think that because they told me they love me, that I should then just automatically give myself to them completely and f*** them right then and there! Apparently men and women think that a girl like me should just lay down and get some whenever someone shows the least bit of interest in me. But, call me shallow and superficial, I happen to believe that physical attraction is a two way street. It does not work if just one half of the couple is attracted to the other. And I think it’s very unfair to me to expect me to sacrifice myself to a guy that I just don’t think is cute or sexy. I just got rid of one ugly nerd boy, and am about to have to get rid of a short, chubby plain guy. With those guys it’s me, me, me, I, I, I,! I want what I want and to Hell with your feelings! Give it to me, now! What about me, people? What about what I want? And by the way, this is how the nerd looks! Yuck! You really think we’re a good match?! I’m a lot prettier than him! I think I deserve better! And by the way, he doesn’t show me the proper respect!

  114. Paul

    I’m not sure why but to me big woman are sexier. I am the guy people look at and say man your in fabulous shape , ( not being full of my self ) but I come from that type family genetics , I eat great and workout my nephews and nieces call me the super heroes uncle , and yet I marrieds my wife BECUSE I think plus size woman are by far sexier then skinny woman .it saddens me when I hear plus size woman feeling like somehow they can’t get a guy in good shape . The best advice I can give is don’t worry what others think , if you can except yourself and walk confident then theirs someone out there for you .if weightnis a health issue by all means do something to be healthier but that doesn’t mean being skinny. If a ,an doesn’t love you and cherish your body for you , then he isn’t the right guy !
    Hopemthat giges someone encouragement .anyone in need of advice is free to email me at laurolove@yahoo.com I will always be open to encouraging someone in need . God bless . paul.

  115. laurolove@yahoo.com

    I’m not sure why but to me big woman are sexier. I am the guy people look at and say man your in fabulous shape , ( not being full of my self ) but I come from that type family genetics , I eat great and workout my nephews and nieces call me the super heroes uncle , and yet I marrieds my wife BECUSE I think plus size woman are by far sexier then skinny woman .it saddens me when I hear plus size woman feeling like somehow they can’t get a guy in good shape . The best advice I can give is don’t worry what others think , if you can except yourself and walk confident then theirs someone out there for you .if weightnis a health issue by all means do something to be healthier but that doesn’t mean being skinny. If a ,an doesn’t love you and cherish your body for you , then he isn’t the right guy !Hopemthat giges someone encouragement .anyone in need of advice is free to email me at laurolove@yahoo.com I will always be open to encouraging someone in need . God bless . paul.

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    ANPC is a free nation for and by the living men and women of the earth. This Private Nation is a grassroots association based out of Indonesia having its own International Charter, Peace Treaty, Constitution, Rules of conduct and has adopted the Declaration of Human Rights. These Treaties have been Registered by International Notice to the Hague and World Court as well as other agencies worldwide. The entire goal and mission of ANPC is WORLD PEACE and freedom for all the nationals of the world, focusing on a peaceful gathering together of all tribes and nations. Our living men and women are to live as Peaceful Inhabitants on the land, striving always to create a better world today and for future generations.

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